Mum (‘Life’s a Journey’ nostalgia Link-Up, week 55)

Welcome to year two of our weekly series of ‘link-up’ Posts which reflect on life’s journey, old memories and family stories (see below for more info).

mum 4 collage

There is a point in the life of everyone who has been blessed with a care free upbringing, when they realise how incredible their parents are. This moment invariably arrives at least 20 years later than your parents would have liked it to, but it’s never too late for gratitude.

With the advent of Mother’s Day, there is surely no better time to celebrate Mum.

Mother, Mummy, Mom. At some point or other in her all too short life mine was addressed as all three. ‘Mother’ – when she wore that abhorrent orange flowery sun hat; ‘Mummy’ – when I was covered in nettle rash and needed her to magic up a battered tube of ointment from the kitchen drawer; ‘Mom’ – when I wanted a lift to my friend’s party on the other side of town (with a very short skirt concealed beneath my coat).

Bloody hell, I miss her.

I’m the blonde tomboy in this very short, but precious clip of cine film…

Sometimes I catch her looking at me in the mirror. Perhaps we look more alike than I ever realised, or maybe she is there, on the other side of the glass, urging me not to wear too much make-up.

My mum was the stern one, the disciplinarian and director of family life. She could stop traffic with a sharp glance, cover me in flour on baking day, mesmerise me with her shorthand, enthrall me with a game of shoe shops make-believe, and scoop me up whole for a hug with a dimpled, freckled smile. She was my mum and I cherished her.

She was standing in the kitchen, ironing in her nightie at 4am when I finally came home one night, aged 18. That’s the irreplaceable, unstoppable love of a mother for her daughter and it left a gaping hole in our lives when we lost it.

This will be the 6th year that I haven’t been able to buy a Mother’s Day card, but the memories just get sharper and more profound. She gave me the gift of a childhood brimming over with love, and the sweet nostalgia of it will be with me forever.

Tell me about your Mum. I am dying to hear your messages of love. Pay her the tribute of words and put her down ‘on paper’ for posterity. Please share your posts on the Linky below, or just leave a comment. It truly makes all the difference.

Oh, and remember you’re never too big for a cuddle.

 Powered by Linky Tools

Click here to enter your link and view this Linky Tools list…

If you enjoyed this post, please share it using the buttons below!


More about the Life’s a Journey weekly memories series.

A selection of other posts from this series:-

FIrst day of school memories family stories

Week 2 – Old School Portrait

family stories best friends

Week 4 – Bestest Friends

family stories teenage crush

Week 5 – Teenage Crushes

family stories grease movie

Week 6 – First Movie Memories

family stories cinderella

Week 9 – Favourite Childhood Books

family stories

Week 19 – Becoming a Parent

family stories

Week 25 – Old Boyfriends

family stories

Week 39 – My home town

8 responses to “Mum (‘Life’s a Journey’ nostalgia Link-Up, week 55)

  1. I feel for you. :o( My Dad passed away a few years ago too, and I still miss him so much. You are indeed never too old or too big for a cuddle, and I hope you are getting plenty of them. xx
    PS: I am linking up with a post about how my Mum helped before First Daughter left to go and live with her Dad.

    • You sweetie. It’s easy to let it slip by, having thought you’d said it all, but I don’t feel I can ever say enough about her….thanks for sharing your mum with us!

  2. Have you ever considered writing an ebook or guest authoring on other websites?

    I have a blog centered on the same information you discuss and would really like to have you share some stories/information.

    I know my audience would value your work. If you are even remotely interested, feel free to send me an email.

  3. Hey! I could have sworn I’ve been to this site before but after browsing through some of the post I realized it’s new to me.

    Anyhow, I’m definitely delighted I found it and I’ll be bookmarking and checking
    back often!

  4. When I originally commented I clicked the “Notify me when new comments are added” checkbox and now each time a comment is added I get
    four emails with the same comment. Is there any way you
    can remove people from that service? Appreciate it!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s